How To Have An Anal Orgasm?

Is there a way to learn how to have an anal orgasm? Do you know the deep spot, just the back of the deep spot can be found in the deepest part of the vagina, all the way in before the cervix, and is responsible for intense orgasms. It makes anal sexual so brilliant.

Do you have an anal sex experience? Do you want to have an anal orgasm? Here are some tips for you to have an anal orgasm.


Use a lot of lube. 

Any sort of anal penetration will not be enjoyable without any sort of lubrication. (This is equally important for the use of sex dolls.) The anus and rectum do not have an automatic lubricating system like the vagina. Using a good quality, a thicker lubricant is key to reducing friction and making anal play sensational. Think of how much lube you need and triple it. Extra lubrication will make sure everything runs smoothly. And lube not only protects you from irritation and small tears, but it also heightens the sensation from every lick, stroke, and thrust.

So how do you go about applying the lube to your anal area? Insert lube into the anus using a lube tube, or apply the lubricant to the outside of the anus and onto the surface of your toy or partner's peen.

Make sure you really trust your partner. 

If you aren't at the point where you'd win a bronze medal in anal sex, then you're probably going to be very vulnerable when doing it. Make sure your partner is someone who you're confident has your pleasure at heart and won't do anything that could hurt you.

Start by practicing with fingers and finger-sized toys.

When it comes to anal penetration, it’s best to start small. Use fingers and toys that are ‘finger width’ to introduce stimulation to the anus. Sometimes friction on the opening of the anus can be enough to produce orgasms. Massaging the anus with the tip of any finger (index or thumbs are typical) creates ease in being penetrated without the idea of having to receive the fullness of your partner's girth. More fingers can be added if you feel you're ready for more pressure.

Consider analingus. 

Having your partner tease and taste your anus could be a good start. Because there might be some bacteria in that area, using plastic wrap or a dental dam is a good idea and might actually add to the sensation.


Try vaginal intercourse first.

You might want to have vaginal intercourse first or have your partner stimulate all different key spots. If you have a combination of stimulation, you have a higher chance of having a blended orgasm, which is some of the best.

Concentrate on the clitoris. 

Sexologist Carol Queen says, "The very easiest way to ensure an orgasm during anal sex and to make it as pleasurable as possible is to add clitoral stimulation while it's going on. Some women will orgasm from anal intercourse alone, but most won't be able to do so. The clitoral stimulation can be very direct or indirect, via positioning oneself face down with a pillow or something else to rub against."

Combine anal with vaginal or penile stimulation.

As if anal orgasms weren’t great enough on their own, there’s a way to up your pleasure even more. Put a butt plug or anal beads in during other forms of sex play, whether that's intercourse, oral sex, or hand play, and pull it out as the person experiences orgasm to double their pleasure. That's because the pudendal nerve, which runs through the clitoris and tip of the penis, also has a branch that goes through through the anus. If the receiver has a prostate, look for a plug that is curved down to massage it.

Don't force it all the way in.

If your partner isn't exactly well-hung, then deep penetration might be OK. But if your partner is on the big side, he might only get halfway in before it starts to hurt. He doesn't need to go all the way; you can enjoy the feeling of gentle strokes in and out.

Remember that anal doesn't have to hurt.
If you go slowly enough, are fully aroused, use more than enough lube and talk to your partner, it doesn't have to be painful. There may be points at the beginning where you have to get past feeling uncomfortable, but as long as you don't force it, things should be enjoyable and end with a spectacular orgasm.

Get into the right headspace for anal play

Be in an excited, positive mood. If you are too tired or cranky you will just fall asleep or get frustrated. Be horny. Be in the mindset of wanting your anus and your rectum to be played with.




Get the Right Tools for Anal Play

1. A Finger

Start off with your own handy tool. It allows you to explore areas more quickly and naturally than any other toy. Make sure the finger is clean and your nails have been trimmed.
2. Use an Anal Dildo (aka Butt Plug)
Butt plugs are cute little (or larger) dildos with a base. The base allows you to enjoy your toy without the worry that it will move too far in (or out) and will be easier to remove.
3. Pure Plug
Only the best, when it comes to anal play. The Pure Plug is not only beautiful, but our sexologist also loved this for its shape, handle and smooth feel, along with being easy to clean.
4. Use a Tongue and Lips (aka Rimming)
The sensation of a tongue or lips touching your anus or perineum (space between the ass and genitals) can be a highly erotic experience. The tongue brings moisture and a sense of taboo that no toy could possibly deliver. Start your exploration gradually — massage the area, use your hands to open the butt cheeks to have full access to the area. Use your breath to warm the area. Use your soft, warm mouth to move the lips and tongue around the opening (you don’t have to dive right in) stimulate the whole area around the perineum and starfish anal opening. Probe and tease this highly sensitive, erotic area.

5. Use a Penis

Anal intercourse can be one of the most stimulating of sexual acts. It is a highly arousing sensation that can lead to intense pleasure for both parties. The warmth and arousal of the penis can add even more excitement.

Do Some Warm-Up Exercises

In keeping with the relaxation theme, one hell of an awesome hack is to have anal sex after you have an orgasm. When we orgasm, both oxytocin and dopamine are released into the bloodstream making us not just happier, relaxed, and less stressed, but also more tolerant to pain. What this means is that if you find that you can't relax enough on your own to have painless anal, going the anal route after an orgasm is an amazing hack to know. It will also give you the opportunity to orgasm yet again, but anal, giving you two delicious and very different orgasms back to back.